Working Hard and Playing Hard

Past experience struggling with deadline has made us become extremely unfocused on our tasks.

I have been noticing this drawback, or more specifically, habits for a long run. Every times I started working and studying with end of wandering and doing nonsense in the Internet without attentions on assignments and any required things even my personal interests.

I saw a very provoking sentence this morning, saying that it is desire that control our whole life, rather than ourselves, our boss or any others. What a shame! I totally agree this saying. All the things we done in the way finishing our assignments are caused by our desires. We are born to be lazy, loose-heart and unfocused. That is the reason why focusing on task is a priceless characteristic. As a student studying psychology, we should have more focus utilizing what we learned from school to keep our self focusing on what we should do. "What we should do" does not mean these are what we are not interested in, rather, we may get involved along with our learning process.

Writing is always very hard, especially when it happen with English. I am not good at writing in Chinese. When writing comes with English, things become even harder. However, we have to get out of the comfortable zone and get involved English world.

I know how important English input matters. However, I almost have no time to read and listen English even compared with life in China. That is another reason why I should become more focus and involved when doing things.

When things happen naturally, things go in right way. When we get involved in our current task, we become focus and fell the existence of mind-flow. Eventually, we learning knowledge as well as language without intentions. We will become much effective than now. I do believe this will happen if we started focusing on our tasks now.

If we keep loose-hard and work without attention, we would become a loser both for being a graduate student and being a happy couple in real every day life.

So, fighting! Switch your cell phone when studying and cut off your internet connection if you do not need it.
Fighting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!